Tuesday, March 8, 2011

Extreme Fatigue and Nauseau and Dizziness!

I like complaining so I'll just do it. I FEEL LIKE CRAP! I can't do anything and my husband is not very helpful. I feel like he is more moody than I am! Every little thing I say gets me attitude from him and being called bitchy! We talked about it yesterday though so for a couple hours last night he was OK with me... and I can only hope it continues... Because I really need the support...

Pregnancy is really making me ANGRY. I'm not a crier so it's not bringing that out in me, but I do get angry easily normally and now it's just really really bad. I'm having trouble containing my anger.

Work is just hellish because I'm so tired and not feeling well. My voice is not keeping the direct tone it needs so my whole approach with the clients is different and just weird. I so close to falling asleep all the time. I am shakey. I think I might take some of my vacation days to work a few 4-day weeks to recuperate better. Like Wednesdays off... How does that sound?

Waaaaah, pregnancy is so hard!

9 Comentários:

Zu hu ra said...

I had missed that you are pregnant -- congratulations! I hope it gets easier for you. Was you first pregnancy this difficult?

Nikki said...

My first (and only thus far) pregnancy was so hard and I can only pray my second (insha'Allah there is a second) will be a bit easier.

I like complaining as well, lol, and I think now that you're pregnant you have even more right to complain more often and more publicly. :)

Insha'Allah as your pregnancy progresses your body/hormones will start to get along again and this will all be a distant memory.

Husbands during pregnancy....grrr. They act like THEY'RE the ones suffering. If they only knew...

Candice said...

Zuhura: Thanks! It was very difficult yes, but I wasn't working (took leave for bedrest and never returned to work since I was coming back to Canada). This one is similar except no bedrest and no time off work! I don't even know how I'm supposed to get my daughter home and then make supper, eat together, give her her bath and put her to bed all by myself. NO IDEA! Nora's hair is all gross and tangled - I simply can't get it undone with the little amount of time I can spend sitting without a back or making any effort at all. She'll have to shave her head soon or something! :'(

Nikki: I hope I am allowed my right to complain! My husband doesn't like to let me AT ALL... And yes, they are always suffering more than us somehow! WTF!

LK said...

*Hugs* poor dear you can do it! Its a big adjustment but I'm sure you'll figure it out :)

Candice said...

Thanks LK! It went OK yesterday - much better than I thought it could. I even stayed up until 9 to watch Glee :P

Becky said...

Awww I hope it'll all get better for you soon inshAllah! And I'm really sorry to hear your husband is of so little help (that is, no help at all). You're always welcome to complain and whine whenever you need to!

Candice said...

Well, I wouldn't say my husband is doing nothing at all, but it is below my expectations and hopes so far. Compared to what his dad would be doing, I guess he's superman! He was raised in a home where both parents had full time jobs but where ALL the house duties were his mom's. He really thinks I'm super lazy because of that and thinks that even if he does less than me, he's less lazy than me!

So NOT the way I was raised!

jana z. said...

oh candance im sorry. i had 5 children and i remember with my second child i thought i would get fired because i was SO tired and emotional. and with my last child, my husband used to say that it was a figment of womens imaginations that our personalities and all around general lifestyle can change, men can be most unhelpful. maybe its the egyptian men lol.

anyway, inshallah, most tiredness and wild mood swings pass after the first trimester and hopefully youll be the textbook pregnant lady and this will happen for you too.

i pray that he stays a bit more patient, helpful and supportive candance.

remind him that you didnt get yourself pregnant so can he bear with this a little bit

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